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Wednesday
Oct192011

We've had this conversation, I am not exaggerating, three times at least

"I don't know why everyone says you shouldn't stare at the sun. I stare the sun all the time."

"Please don't stare at the sun."

"But I do it and it feels okay."

"It is not okay. Staring at the sun will damage your eyes. This is a fact."

"Hmm, I don't think it's a fact."

"There's really no debating this. No staring at the sun. Period."

"No, but see, it doesn't even hurt!"

"Listen. Even if it doesn't hurt, for whatever reason. Don't stare at the sun."

"I did it once for like ten minutes! And I can see fine."

"You did not look at the sun for ten minutes."

"I really did. My friends dared me and I just stared and stared."

"What?! Stop it! Are you trying to go blind?"

"You don't understand. It's fine. I do it all the time."

"Stop staring at the sun. I can't believe we're still talking about this."

"Mom. Listen to me. I don't get hurt, so it's no problem."

"For the love of--DO NOT STARE AT THE SUN."

"No, see, what I'm saying is, all those people who say it's bad for you are probably wrong. Because I've been testing it."

"They are not wrong. This is basic stuff, Henry. This is--look. No more staring at the sun. Promise me."

"Fine."

"Thank you."

"I'll stop telling you about how I stare at the sun."

"HENRY."

 

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Reader Comments (32)

Just prey there are no eclipses any time soon...

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterKirsty

*prAy* Ack. Sorry.

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterKirsty

Has he seen the movie Pi?

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterErin

Just have him watch the opening scene from Pi, and calmly explain that's what happens to kids who stare at the sun.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yf9IXmCER8o

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterCas

Ahh, this is the age where they think they know everything (actually that's pretty much every age after they start talking). Make him read this: http://www.strudel.org.uk/blog/astro/000347.shtml and watch the video.

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterElizabeth B

Henry and my son? Separated at birth. No lie.

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered Commentersunny

I'm with Henry. I think it's nonsense! Sounds like medieval mumbo-jumbo to me. "Look not upon the sun or thine eyes shall be stricken and thine cows will not produce milk." Although I will now follow the above links and be proven wrong.

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterRebecca

Ummm, I am one of those girls who stared at the sun ALL the time when i was little. AND I also didn't feel anything, so now that I am grown up, kinda I would love to know the real reason one shouldn't look besies 'it's bad for you'. It's all in the details for me :)

Here is the reason why one shouldn't do it.

The retina has no pain receptors, if there is damage you won't feel it. Staring at the sun burns away at the macula, and the cells of the lens of the eye are never replaced; the proteins of the lens are never replenished. The lens cannot repair itself; this damage accumulates over a lifetime.

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterLisa

I've had amazing eyesight all my life, but recently (I'm 35) I found I couldn't read far-away signs as well as I used to. And working at the computer made me dizzy. And I couldn't drive without getting carsick.

So now I wear glasses. I still have 20-20 vision without them, but there are some funky things with my vision that the eye doctor attributed to "sun damage from childhood." Without my glasses, it's like I'm looking through antique windows.

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterKim W.

Yes. Oh YES. Insert ANY OTHER TOPIC and this is the conversation I have with my 8 year old almost every day. He is SURE he knows. Whatever it may be.

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterBethany Zabrosky

I am in the library right now trying not to die laughing.

October 19, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterGina

It wasn't until I got to "Mom ..." that I could be sure this wasn't a conversation you had with Scott. What? He's a boy too.

October 20, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterSarah

Have you talked about spitting in the wind?

October 20, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterMarinka

BTDT. He's now 10 and can still see. For now.

October 20, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterBeth

Psst, can you ask Babble to put up an RSS feed to your column on it? I don't know why this is such a problem for Babble....

I have missed all your posts which you didn't mention on this site, b/c of no RSS feed!!

Thanks! I just don't want to miss anything!! :-)

*goes back to staring at the sun* ;-)

October 20, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterMissRed

I don't know why they tell you not to xxxx, I do it all the time and it's fine

I don't envy you as Henry enters the teenage years.

October 20, 2011 | Unregistered Commenternelking

from Discover Magazine
http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/badastronomy/2009/03/03/ten-things-you-dont-know-about-the-sun/?pid=21

1) You won't go blind looking at it. Probably.

You've heard this from your mother, your neighbor, and pretty much everyone else: don't look at the Sun or you'll go blind! Well, that's not strictly true. To be clear: no one has ever been permanently and totally blinded by looking at the Sun (despite a recent 30 Rock episode). You can hurt your eyes, but the damage is usually not total, and a lot of it heals (though not always completely).

Usually, damage to the eyes from looking at the Sun happens during a total solar eclipse. The eclipse itself doesn't hurt you -- after all, the point of the eclipse is that the Sun is covered by the Moon! -- but the damage happens in the moments right after the eclipse. While the Sun is blocked, your pupil dilates to let in more light, so when the first sliver of the brilliant Sun reappears your eye is flooded with light. This can cause damage to your retina called solar retinopathy. It's actually not heat damage, but photochemical; the flood of UV light actually alters the chemistry of your cells, damaging them.

In general, the damage is minor and can heal well, though there can be some permanent though relatively minor effects (in other words, you still shouldn't stare at the Sun). Usually the damage is worse in children because their lenses let in more blue light (the lens yellows with age, acting as a natural filter for UV light).

So you won't go permanently and totally blind from looking at the Sun... unless you do it looking through binoculars or a telescope. But then in those cases there are Darwin Awards to consider.

Incidentally, using sunglasses to look at the Sun can actually make things worse, since they block visible light and your pupil dilates to compensate. If you want to observe the Sun -- and I recommend it, because it's fascinating and utterly beautiful -- then read Mr Eclipse's guide to safe solar viewing. It's a site for sore eyes.

October 20, 2011 | Unregistered Commentersarah

Well, he's got a point.

October 20, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterLuda

I am pregnant with my first, but I am a nanny to a sweet baby. Over the summer I had 2 other kids, a 4 year old and a 6 year old. I had the same conversation with the 4 year old. ALL. SUMMER. LONG. He was adamant that ObVIOUSLY it was okay to stare at the sun because it didn't hurt HIM at all. His sister would sigh an exasperated sigh and say "Shane, just put on your sunglasses."

...it must be a boy thing.

October 20, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterLacey Jane

The only problem is, we only get one set of eyes (unless you get a transplant and then, well, I guess you get 2 sets. Hmmm.). So messing around with them by staring at the sun is pretty dangerous. Which is why it appeals to a boy. How much REAL danger do they have to battle nowadays? No food to kill. No manual work to prove their bravery and man(boy)hood. So the poor kids are left to staring at the sun.

Maybe he needs bull riding lessons or something? Sounds safer for his eyes, at least.

October 21, 2011 | Unregistered Commentertracey

Finally, Bono has someone to join him in staring at the sun.

October 21, 2011 | Unregistered Commenterallisonthemeep

I like how you pretend that this is a conversation between you and Henry when we all know this is actually a conversation between your husband and you.

October 24, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterKato Katonian

Do not stare at the sun, Henry, because of the 4 yr old New Jersey girl whose father told her to look at the sun and now she is blind.

Also, Henry, be thankful and grateful for your mother and the kinds of people that gravitate toward her that can supply her with newslinks about sun blindness like this:

Looking at the Sun is dangerous at any time when any part of the brilliant visible disk of the Sun (its photosphere) is visible; to do so can cause permanent eye damage. This is true at any time, there is an unusually high temptation to look at the Sun, there is a high incidence of eye damage caused. Viewing the Sun through any kind of optical aid, binoculars, a telescope, or even a camera's viewfinder- is extremely dangerous.

October 24, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterAlexandra/Empress

I like how you pretend that this is a conversation between you and Henry when we all know this is actually a conversation between your husband and you.

October 25, 2011 | Unregistered Commenterbest replica watches

My kid used to look at the Sun, but only while driving in the car, sitting in the back with his head tilted toward the window. Maybe the glass helped prevent damage by converting UV light to infrared. Or maybe there is damage and he is just living with it. He used to complain about seeing yellow and purple dots when he looked at things in sunlight, but now he claims to have no memory of it.

October 26, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterErol

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